Pregnancy, her journey begins ♡

Pregnancy is a woman first enjoyable, memorable moment of their life. Yes you can on journeys, holidays and travel like you got nothing better to do but pregnancy is the only meaningful journey you will ever have and to achieve it you need to become a mother even before seeing your unborn child. Yes some people would say its tiring, sickness, vomiting, mood swings etc.. but creating a life is not easy. Well lets say it is easy to maybe get the child inside you but once that life is inside you its real. You become a mother, being a mother means you have to face challenges with your child. If you are growing a life inside you what can you expect, yes you will have all those horrible things but feeling nausea or morning sickness for 9 months wouldn't harm you. Your baby will be with you and the minute you see your child you would not think about the horrible morning sicknesses you had and getting up to the bathroom at 3am wouldn’t be your concern anymore. Your baby just needs your energy to grow and become a cute little baby, if we cant sacrifice a few months for our children what is the point being a woman. We might well go get a sex change lol. I think every woman should be proud to be a woman, we get help to get that baby but after that who gets to feel the baby kicks and movements we do. Men don't get to enjoy this beautiful moment. We do everything in our power to make our unborn baby healthy and make sure they are healthy when they come out. Our partners can support us but we do the hard work here. Becoming a mother is a huge responsibility some people are never ready for this till they are 40 years old and they take abortion into consideration. Why cant you just avoid this? you are killing a life. Your unborn doesn't have be 12 weeks in order for you to call it a child. I think people like these need to get them self protection or don't have intercourse. Sex shouldn't be something you do with anyone, you can have sex with anyone but making love can only be with someone you love. I use the phrase making love as people just mis use the word sex. I have never encouraged my friends to do abortions. When I got pregnant for the first time I decided to keep my baby, he is an amazing baby to have. Trust me I have no regrets whatsoever about my decision, if I took abortion into consideration I would be killing my father. I don’t have a dad as you guys already know, so when I got pregnant I said to myself my dad is being born again. In our religion we believe in life after death and that is through a newborn. How can I kill my dad? no way! I am a good mother from what my friends say and I wouldn’t say I am but I can say I care for my son on daily basis because he is my baby. He needs to be cared for and everything else comes after my little angel.

My pregnancy journey was good, difficult, hard but overall I loved it. I’ve face difficulties but the minute I saw my son’s face all my worries flew away. I just wanted to live for him and do everything in my power to give him a good life. Sometimes I feel like I'm dreaming but no I am not. He is really here someone to call me mummy. Well he can’t say mummy yet but he can say mummy in tamil : ‘ammah’!

So.. let me jump straight into it now. I have to share this as well! It is about my best friend who lives close to me. Her name is Anosia she is married and she is pregnant. I am so happy for her, after such a struggled she finally told me the great news well she told me the day she knew which was months back now. Sorry guys this post is a little late.. she is due in December, I don't have any pictures of her big belly right now but I will post more or her pregnancy journey soon. She is having a baby!! yes I am going to be a aunty, she is more like my sister. I speak to her everyday and I check on her because I want the best for her and her bubba inside. She is doing really well, they are going to be great parents. She has already organised the nursery for the unborn baby, he/she is very lucky. OOPS I wont share the sex of the baby yet as well but of course i know! I was the first to know out of everyone even when she found out she was pregnant she told me first. She is very special to me and I just want her to be safe and give birth to this beauty inside in a safe way. I will defiantly get her to share her pregnancy experience in a later blog but stay with me and I will update on her journey as my pregnancy journey came to an end in 2014 lol.